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Monday, November 13, 2006

Of Lies & trust

i was online at work and received an offline from 'C' - he said he had a long weekend .. i can only wonder what happened over the weekend .. *sigh* - i hope he is ok thought and hopefully i can find out what happened to him later - please please please let everything be ok for him ...

Anyways today i had a talk with my friend Ed about his girlfriend. I think he is having trust issues with her - i think thats the worst that can happen to anyone - to have trust issues especially when they at war and their girlfriend back home .. I guess what bugged him was that the girl he was madly inlove sent him pictures of someone else instead of her - according to her she was shy about how she looked.. Thats why she never got on cam for him - poor guy i think .. he still loves her inspite of it - he has seen her on cam now that she has own up to him .. But he still has trust issues with her and wondered what else she lied about - i guess anyone would huh .. Now that things are out in the open - they are meeting up when he returns room for two weeks to see his kids and her - he said only then he will know if he can deal with the lying and trust issues. I can only wish him the best ... Who knows maybe by sitting across from her they can talk and maybe work things out - trust - so important .... How he found out - i guess it was a give away from her itself .... Maybe its her way of hinting at him .. anyways the best to them both ..

Trust honesty - two very important factors in a relationship - trust is gained - and sometimes its hard for people to believe again when they have been lied and if they felt their feelings have been compromised ... Seeing they are in a long distance relationship - its all the more important that trust be present ..

So any thoughts on the situation?

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